Britney, I know exactly how you feel. Except I've never been dumped (never had a real relationship). The jury's still out on whether or not no-strings-attached sex is a good idea. I've done it a few times.

My advice: get a vibrator.
My better advice: do NOT disinfect it with hydrogen peroxide. I cannot stress this enough.

On an introductory note, I'm Val. Hi all.